Well that is why I am having second thoughts with the situation I am in. I am constantly wondering if I am with the right person. My problem is that I can only be strong for me whereas my fiance is wanting me to be strong for both of us. It is very frustrating. I was brought up not to rely on any man but sometimes I just wish I could be taken care of because I have been taking care of people my whole life starting with my brother and sister when I was about 5 years old. At some point in my life it would be nice to have someone tell me that everything is going to be all right and I can just relax and not worry...